'Reverse Psychology is a persuasion technique involving the false advocay of a belief or behaviour contrary to the belief or behaviour which is actually being advocated'..
Dis post is being dedicated to a frnd who first told me abt this thing called 'reverse psychology'..
breaking it in simple terms..most of us or rather all of us go thru situations or persuasions which make us believe which we dont want to..and thus make us do things which we do without thinking or just out of impulse..
My last posts abt 'changes' is one such reaction of the reverse psychology widin myself..I did things which my frnds asked me to do..I believed wat dey made me think and reacted accordingly inspite of the fact that I din like myself reacting dat way..
being highly emotional there had been many such instances whr I have done which I din want to and later repented for changing myself..may be even now I m going thru the same phase..
I also undergo split personality problem..and I don't shy away frm confessing it anymore..its like I am dancing to a song while I listen to a song 5mins before I step out of my house..a bubbly..fun-loving grl it seems I am..and as soon as I step out..I am dis serious looking grl wid specs..murmuring gaalis at loafers who sing and comment at grls wen they pass thru roads(their dicks must be tied wid hanging bricks and den dey shd be made to sing infrnt of grls)..I like wen guys look at me..but again I fiercely stare back at dem coz I feel nobody 'except' my close frnds and most importantly my love have got any right to comment or even look at me!!
now how do u fucking explain dat!If ppl are not looking at me..I feel I am looking weird..and at the same time wen dey look at me I feel angry..I dunno what exactly I want! and most importantly I guess I know very well what exactly I want but I can't alws do what I want!
I love my parents..I do things at times just for their sake and tell myself "polo u did it for dem"..but wen I am alone and think back dose things..I feel like going n fighting wid dem coz I want to shout ..'I have grown up!I don't want even a single order or advise from you ppl for doing anything'..knowing and understanding dat watever they told me to do was for my own good:|..
CONFUSED??good..:D..
2016.
9 years ago
well that reverse psychology guy wud be me
ReplyDeleteits not ur confusion re
its the knee jerk reaction when u scowl at ppl staring at u
its ur gud values that make u resent
and everyone of us loves adulation and attention
nothing to be confused
ReplyDeleteMaybe you're confused coz you think too much! I was like you at some point of time and I think what really helped me was that I looked at just one thing which is common to all, that is my motive in life.Whatever I do or want to do or not do or don't want to do depends on that. If my motive is getting money from my parents, I do not yell back at them :P No matter how bad I want to! Even if I am wrong lol... But I think all of this is a part and parcel of life and we gotta take it as it comes.
And afterall Polo, you're a woman! We all are prime examples of reverse psychology :P Guys too for that matter. But we admit it and they don't! The egoistic beings that they are :P
WTF @ above
ReplyDeleteallrite guys!wtf!ejaz meet ashi my losest and only matured and sensible girlfrnd(no pun)..
ReplyDeletewell yes ashi u r right most of d guys do have ego issues dat dey miss expressing der weaknesses soecially infrnt of grls..but dn ejaz i second you too coz u r an exception who being a guy confesses abt his weaknesses..\but yeah i wd do like to mention dat since ashi n me both have known guys as frnds and companions both..the 'ego' issue 'is' a metter wid d guys bigtime..
i don wanna argue
ReplyDeleteaint in the mood